Reflections and advice

I started Border Beat feeling like I was way out of my comfort zone, and worried about how I would even find one interesting, newsworthy thing to write about. This class has challenged me to look beyond my regular story ideas, and come up with stories that I really felt needed to be told, but also dealt with the border. Surprisingly, I DID IT!!! I am very proud of the stories I covered this semester. I had the most amazing interviews in my college career, I learned to deal with controversial immigration and religious issues, and I learned to look at the border as more than another topic for politicians to argue about.

As I finish up this class I am actually quite glad I didn't make it into CatScan (my secret hope at the beginning of the semester). Border Beat is a site that I am proud to have been a part of, and I enjoyed searching for border-related stories. So my advice for new Border Beat students is...

Enjoy the class! Be stretched as a journalist, and get some good interviews. I have found that people you may be intimidated to talk to are often willing to do an interview. Start learning soundslides and audacity right away so that when it comes time for you to use them, it won't be so stressful, and you can do your project well.

Do work that you are proud of, and think like a journalist. I think the key to finding great stories is always being on the lookout. Bring a journal, a pen and a camera with you wherever you go (when possible). I hate when I see a great story right in front of me, and I don't have the tools to get an interview or photo. When you are always on the lookout, finding good stories will be easier than you think.


Don't complain. You are paying to be here (or someone else is paying for you to be here), so when things seem too hard or you feel you aren't getting anywhere, ask questions and figure out what you can do to change that. Don't waste this class because it is such a great opportunity to be creative, challenge yourself, and publish really great work that you can hopefully use on your resume.

Border Beat was a wonderful class, and I hope that next semester's class adds even more great content and media, and maybe you guys can win another award.

Signing out for my final blog,
Ashley Donde

Christmas Tamales and other great Tucson holiday traditions

(photo by baldtechnologist, flickr.com) I'm not Mexican, but every year my family gets to feast on delicious homemade tamales during the Christmas season. The food is a gift from an employee of my parents'. Every year we've gotten them, and they are always delicious. One of the great things about living in Tucson is participating in Mexican holiday traditions. Here are some Tucson holiday events with uniquely Mexican flavor:



One Tucson tradition, held for the last 30 years, is the El Nacimiento display at the Tucson Museum of Art. This display, created by Maria Luisa Tena, features hundreds of figurines arranged to tell stories from the Bible out of the Old and New Testaments, including an arrangement of the birth of Jesus. This display runs from November 10 - March 30.

If you are interested in finding unique Mexican Christmas decorations or nativity scenes to purchase, then the Feria Navidena (Christmas Market) is a great place to go. This market runs the whole month of December. Bring your children on the weekend to take pictures with "Pancho Claus." The market is run by El Centro Cultural de Las Americas. Call (520) 629-9536 for more details.

Of course, tamales are a great Mexican Christmas tradition, as I mentioned earlier. You can be a part of this tradition too at the Tucson Tamale & Heritage Festival on December 1st. In addition to great food, there will also be live entertainment and a tamale competition. The free event is from 10am-6pm.

The Southwestern Nutcracker isn't necessarily a "Mexican" tradition, but it is a uniquely Tucson tradition. The ballet runs from December 7-9, and brings the traditional Nutcracker to Tucson in the late 1800's, including coyotes and rattlesnakes!

To add to your holiday cultural experience, check out A Tucson Pastorela December 14-23 at the Leo Rich Theater. The performance is put on by Borderlands Theater, and tells the story of Jesus in a unique way. Ballet Folklorico Tapatio will be performing at the theater as well, on Sunday the 16th, and Sunday the 23rd. AND, every night there will be pinatas.

So decorate your Christmas cookies, and make your gingerbread houses, but don't forget to check out a few of these exciting events and maybe you can create some new holiday traditions.

Puerto Penasco

Many Tucsonans head to Puerto Penasco (Rocky Point) to enjoy the beach and an inexpensive vacation. This past weekend I headed down to Rocky Point with my church, along with other churches and groups from Arizona, to participate in "Casa De Amor" (house of love), a house building project that is part of Amor Ministries.

This was my first house building trip, and my third or fourth trip to Rocky Point - and the most memorable. I will be doing an in depth story on the family we built for on borderbeat.net, but I wanted to blog about my feelings and thoughts about the trip because it was so meaningful to me.

As I said before, many Tucsonans head to Rocky Point to enjoy the beach, but this weekend I didn't even see the beach. I spent the entire weekend with a woman named Inez, getting to know about her and her family, and helping build a home for her.

Inez, me, my husband Sean, and Inez's husband Pasqual

She was amazed that our group cared enough about her and her family to come and build a home for them, and spend time getting to know them. She explained that most Americans come to Rocky Point to drink and party.

I was amazed at everything she told me. Her life had been extremely difficult, she had been treated horrificly by her mother and brothers, and her attitude was that of forgiveness, perserverance and gratitude. She said she and her husband spend time in prayer every night and every morning thanking God they have a place to sleep, a blessed marriage and a God that loves them and has not forgotten them. She told everyone who had helped build her new home that we were invited to stay there anytime we wanted, and to bring our families, even if it's crowded. She told me to say hello to my family, even though she didn't know them. She told me to be an encouragement and support to my family as we struggle through rough times. She told me to always remember the things that God does for me. Her wisdom was astounding. The other women I was with as she spoke to us were amazed. Our jaws were dropped and our eyes were wet with tears as she told us things about her life that she had never told another person, aside from her husband. She told us that we were all sisters. We were - and still are.

I wish that every person could meet someone like Inez. Someone with that amount of wisdom, humility, gratitude and love. What an incredible weekend in Rocky Point. While motorcycle bikers from all across the U.S. were there for a massive rally, partying and drinking like most Americans do, I was in the process of having my life changed. What a shame that they finished their weekend with empty beer bottles. I ended my weekend with a full heart and a bigger family.

Just a note: ANYONE can be part of Casa De Amor. You do not have to be part of a certain church to participate. PLEASE get involved. I promise you it will change your life, and will give you a better weekend than a beer on the beach.

The chimichanga debate

I have managed to write quite a few blogs without mentioning food, but now the time has finally come. When it comes to great Mexican food, Tucson has everything one could wish for: authentic Mexican, Tex-Mex, Arizona-Sonoran, national Mexican food chains and basically everything in-between. But what makes Tucson even more special is one menu choice in particular: the chimichanga.

Tucson likes to claim this delicious fried-burrito sensation originated within her lovely desert valley. In fact, as I did some quick research, I found debates about various myths explaining how it came about.

Wikipedia, for example, states in the first sentence of the chimichaga entry that it hails from the Old Pueblo; but the final sentence of the entry mentions a Phoenix restaurant owner may have come up with the dish.

The most common story I found, after looking at several sources, was that a burrito was accidentally dropped into a deep-fryer at El Charro Cafe (an historic Tucson restaurant dating back to 1922) by founder Monica Flin. As she was about to say a curse-word in Spanish she quickly changed her utterance to "chimichanga" (translates roughly to "thingamajig") to gaurd the ears of little ones in the kitchen with her.

Other sources seem a bit more realistic (in my opinion anyhow) about the debate, and say although the chimichanga gained it's popularity in Tucson restaurants, it was most likely being cooked before the 1920's along the border in Sonora, Mexico, where wheat and beef are harvested (info from findarticles.com.)

Whether or not Tucson is truly the origin of the chimichanga, I think we can all agree that finding a tasty fried-burrito in the beautiful Old Pueblo is pretty easy. But if you want to enjoy the meal at it's possible birthplace - El Charro Cafe - you will be in for a savory treat!

There is also the option of making your own, which I have not yet ventured to do. However, I am a proponent of the Food Network Web site, and they have a few different recipes for a delicious chimichanga. My favorite chef happens to be Emeril Lagasse, so try his version of a pork chimi, and let me know what you think!!

And if you think you've heard enough about chimichangas, think again. I found a 2006 story from a Sacramento news station about a woman who claims to have seen the face of Jesus Christ on her chimichanga. Please read the article and watch the video...am I allowed to say it's hilarious? Well, since it's my blog, I will.

Happy chimichanga eating!!

Sugar Skulls

Sugar skulls have become a traditional part of the Day of the Dead celebration. The skulls are most often created as a gift for a deceased relative or friend. They are a common sight at most Day of the Dead altars, and are brought to grave sites as well. The tradition is very important to strict observers of the holiday, and has also become a fun craft for children. Tucson has adopted this tradition, and sugar skulls have become a staple of the Tucson Meet Yourself celebration every fall. (Left: My dad, Larry Taylor, with a sign explaining Tucson Meet Yourself)

The pictures below are of children at Tucson Meet Yourself creating their own sugar skulls, and learning about the special Mexican tradition.

The skulls at Tucson Meet Yourself were pre-made because they take 24 hours to harden and dry. These childen began the process with adding the frosting, which is what the young boy to the left is about to do. The little girl to the right is recording her name as she prepares to decorate her sugar skull.

The skulls are made from a mixture of granulated sugar, meringue powder and water, and are placed in a mold to get their shape.

After adding frosting, which is a mixture of powdered sugar, meringue powder and water, the children added other decorations to make their skulls unique. These kids used feathers and glitter to create their own special sugar skull.

Traditional Mexican sugar skulls are decorated with foil and colored icing, and bear the name of the deceased loved one. However, children (or adults - whoever is making the skull) can add a variety of decorations to their skull such as beads, sequins or shells. Anything can be used to personalize the skull for the one it is being made for.

For a more detailed "how-to" about making sugar skulls, click here.

Dia De Los Muertos - Tucson Style

Last year I attended the All Soul's Procession in downtown Tucson, watching as thousands of Southern Arizonan's came to celebrate the Day of the Dead. The Day of the Dead is traditionally a Mexican holiday, occuring after Halloween, that celebrates the death of family members. Tucson celebrates the holiday with a weekend of festivities, culminating in the incredible processionaly downtown.

I have to admit that attending the parade was not my idea (it was a class assignment). However, it turned out to be such an incredibly fun night, and I was amazed by a lot of things I saw. This blog is going to recap the 2006 All Soul's Procession through my eyes, focusing on some of the most intriguing parts, and hopefully it will inspire the reader to come out for this year's processional on Novemeber 4th, and share in the fun!

Note to the reader: All photos in this blog were taken by Ashley Donde.

This little boy certainly was not decked out like other processional paticipants, but it struck me to see a young child (he looks to be about 4 or 5), dressed up as a skeleton at a parade filled with all kinds of "scary" images. Personally, I thought it was a bit creepy to see a child dressed up like a skeleton. But that's what's interesting about this holiday - most don't see it as creepy, but rather a joyful celebration of family and the event of death. You will never catch me dressing up my children (when I have them) like skeletons, but keep your eye out at this year's parade for little ones dressed up in these kinds of costumes.

On a similar note, I was also impressed to see this elderly woman walking around with a white mask and skeleton bone gloves, holding a small skull in her hands. She walked around reaching her fingers out at people, and that is what you are seeing in the picture to the right with the young girl.

After wandering the streets for a bit, this group (to the left) walked past, and I was again, very suprised. They were protesting the civilian lives taken in Iraq. Rather than celebrating the death of family members, they "marched" for the deaths of Iraqi citizens whom they don't know. I thought that was a creative and meaningful way to celebrate at the processional. I also spotted a man dressed up as Jesus (pictured to the right), with a sign on his back reading, "I AM NOT REPUBLICAN." If you go this year, keep your eyes out for political protestors. I'm sure with the election coming next year there will be no lack of politcal voices at the parade.

In addition to Iraq war protestors, there were participants voicing their concerns over America's immigration policies. The sign pictured on the right speaks specifically of two Mexican immigrants who died on their journey across the border.

As illustrated in the photo story at the beginning of this blog, costumes are no small undertaking for Tucson's All Soul's Processional. In fact some people spend half of the year putting together their spectacular creations. The man pictured on the left wore one of my favorite costumes of the night. Be on the lookout this year for some fantastic and creative costumes, and try to come up with your own to wear to the parade!

Finally, at the very end of the procession, I saw this man walk past me, and I think it was the most interesting sight of the night. There were quite a few musicians in the parade, including a man playing a grand piano on a moving float, and a group playing banjos and guitars, but this man was a different kind of musician altogether. As you can see he played two flutes type instruments with his nostrils, one with his mouth, and jingled the tambourine on his arm. What a fun way to end my night.

If you plan on going this year...

The processional gathers at 5:30pm on Nov. 4th, outside of Epic Cafe, on the corner of University Blvd., and 4th Ave. Be there on time, or even a bit early if you can because the streets fill up quick. If you end up at the back of the parade you miss out on a lot of the costumes and floats. The best way to see it is to get as close to the front as possible, find a place on the side of the street, and watch as everyone walks past. That, or get a costume and join the parade yourself. Either way, the All Soul's Processional is a 18 year Tucson tradition that every Tucsonan should see. Have fun!

Talavera Pottery

Mexican art of all kinds is plentiful in Tucson. You see it in restaurants, homes, on the street corner...it's everywhere. One particular form of art that is extremely popular in Tucson is Mexican pottery. I have seen many sizes, shapes and colors of pottery in the 24 years I have lived here, but one type stands out to me, and that is Talavera pottery.

What is it?

Talavera is a glazed ceramic pottery that has been created in Mexico since the 16th century. It remains a beautiful artform today, coming to us from Puebla, Mexico. Photo to the left thanks to bigbadbob1, flickr.com

What's the history?
It is most likely that soon after its establishment in 1531, the people of Puebla hired artisans from Talavera de la Reina, Spain to come and teach them the art of ceramic pottery making, mainly for the purpose of decorating monasteries with tiles of religious figures and symbols.

Below is a Talavera bowl feauturing the image of the Virgin of Gaudalupe, thanks to teyacapan, flickr.com

How is it made?

Talavera begins with the selection of two different types of clay. These clays are kneaded together, and then left to dry in a mold or shape formed by the artist. The piece is then fired in a kiln at 1500 degrees Fahrenheit. After this it is glazed, and painted, usually with a floral or geometrical pattern. It can only be painted with 6 different colors: blue, green, yellow, red, brown and black. When the painting is finished, the piece is put in a kiln and fired at 1900 degrees Fahrenheit. There are is a small number of factories making Talavera pottery. Here is a picture of one factory in Puebla, Mexico (photo below thanks to shutzele, flickr.com)

But how do I know it's a real Talavera?

"To avoid confusion, the Mexican Government has decreed that the use of the name ‘Talavera’ be protected and limited to a geographical area in and around the city of Puebla. In 1997 the State of Puebla obtained the Denomination of Origin stating that only the pottery produced in the geographical region of the State of Puebla or Zona de Talavera (Talavera Zone), including Atlixco, Cholula, Puebla and Tecali, and that follows the standards set by the Consejo Regulador de la Talavera (Regulating Council of Talavera) can be called ‘Talavera’. In order to be certified these workshops have to pass an inspection and verification process every six months. So, just as Champagne is only produced in Champagne, France, Talavera can only be produced in Puebla, Mexico." Information from http://www.loscabosguide.com/necri/talavera-pottery.htm

I pasted this info from another site because it was too great to paraphrase. Talavera is such a unique and beautiful artform that the Mexican government has gone to great lengths to protect it. If the piece does not have a signature from the shop that created it at the base, and does not say that it is from Puebla, it is not authentic.

Where in town can I get it?

Here are just a few locations in Tucson where you can purchase authentic Talavera products:

Rustica: Exquisite Mexican Folk art and Furniture

200 S. Park Ave. / Phone: (520) 623-4435

Dry Heat Trading Company

6544 E. Tanque Verde Rd., Suite 14o / Phone: (520) 733-2499

Zocalo

3016 E. Broadway Blvd. / (520) 320-1236

The Pinata

Photo thanks to bodytothesouth, Flickr.com
I hope everyone reading this blog has at one time in their life experienced the joy of striking a pinata open, and enjoying all the goodness it delivers in the form of delicious candies. This blog is dedicated to the wonderful Mexican tradition of the pinata.

As I started doing some research about the origins of the pinata, I couldn't come up with a straight answer. Some say it came from China, others say Italy and some say it came from the Aztecs. What I did find that was agreed upon was that the word "pinata" comes from the Italian word "pignatta," a pine-cone-shaped clay pot.

I also learned another interesting fact. The Mexican people often used the pinata as a religious teaching tool. The ways it was used seem to vary a bit, but here were the most interesting ones I found:

1. The seven pointed pinata has seven points representing the seven deadly sins (envy, sloth, gluttony, greed, lust, wrath and pride).


2. Some explain the beautiful colors of the pinata to represent the false beauty of Satan, and the candies inside are the tempations of the world. The stick is then used as to destroy the "evil" represented in the pinata.


3. In the above scenario, the blindfolded person represents "blind faith." Photo thanks to MaLuMaPe, Flickr.com
   
4. Others say the stick represents love, and only love (Jesus) can destroy sin.


5. In the above scenario, the candies represent the forgiveness of sins, and new life.

Pinatas are generally used at celebrations like Christmas or birthday parties, not merely for religious illustrations. They can be any design or size you want them to be.

If that's the case, why not make your own pinata? It can be a fun family project, and a great activity at any party. Click here for a "how to" Web Site with instructions on how to build your own 6-point pinata. Just add your own extra point if you want to use it for the religious symbolism.

If another design is what you want, try Google.com for "pinata patterns" and browse through the results. I'm sure you'll find something perfect for your special occasion. Here is a photo I found of an Elvis pinata: Photo thanks to chotda, Flickr.com

The possibilities are never-ending!

Interior Design

Courtesy of Mr. Greenjeans, Flickr.com

Decorating the interior of your home is a process that can be expensive, time consuming and difficult. My husband and I discovered coming up with a color scheme and a "theme" makes the process much easier. I would describe our home as "Mediterranean beachy." This blog, however, is going to provide some tips on how to create a beautiful Mexican themed home, in a simple and frustration-free way.


Step 1: Pick a Color Scheme

Mexican design is known for some bright colors, so don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. According to an HGTV article, architect Manolo Mestre says the new trend in Mexican design is to combine a gray base with accents of red and yellow.

How can you do this?

Painting your walls is a great way to add color to your home, BUT, it is also time consuming and expensive. Here are some simpler ways to add color:

• Pillows - Use red and yellow pillows on a gray couch to get some color in the room.
  
• Lamps - Find a table lamp with a red, yellow or green base. To save money, paint an existing lamp one of these colors.
  
• Table linens - IKEA carries some great and inexpensive table linens in bright colors that can instantly add color to your dining room. Try a red table runner and red chair pads. If you want to add in some gray, paint your existing table and chairs.
  
• One splurge item - Add a huge dash of color by finding one special item that you love, and don't mind spending a little bit of money on. Maybe a beautiful red comfy chair, or a gorgeous orange area rug. One large colorful item can make a huge difference in a room void of color.

Courtesy of J. Ruth, Flickr.com

Step 2: Add Some Tile

One common theme in Mexican design is artistic tile arrangement. An obviously appropriate place to do this would be in your kitchen. Rather than adding tile to the entire wall, which would be expensive and time consuming, displaying a few brightly colored decorative tiles as a backdrop above the oven adds the same feel. If money and time aren't issues, a creative idea is to add decorative tiles in a place that isn't so expected. Here is an image of a creative tile display near a staircase:

Courtesy of Svanes, Flickr.com

Step 3: Silver Frames

Silver frames are a popular Mexican design element. A great way get this look is to do use one large silver framed mirror in the vanity area of the bathroom. If one large mirror is too costly, a little cluster of smaller framed mirrors in the hallway is a nice look. Here is one take on it:

Courtesy of Drew-o-rama, Flickr.com

Step 4: Folk Art

The last major step to a Mexican home makeover is to add some traditional Mexican folk art. Wall art is always acceptable, but Mexican folk art is generally not meant for the walls. Here are some wonderful examples of some art you can add to your coffee table, end tables or any ledge or shelf you have available:

Courtesy of Lorimarsha, Flickr.com and Courtesy of Stribdawn, Flickr.com

These simple steps should get you on your way to a makeover worthy of the "spicy" style of Tucson, AZ.

The Children

*This blog is a supplement to my story "Teacher Helps Immigrant Students Succeed" in the education section of Borderbeat.net.

After interviewing Diane Lopez, a teacher of mostly illegal immigrant children at Apollo Middle School, I had a different outlook on the way I view illegal immigrants, and the way the press is dealing with the entire immigrant situation. Hearing stories of individual children and what they go through everyday really got the wheels turning in my head.

When I turn on talk radio, or watch a cable news station all I hear is banter back and forth between liberals and conservatives and how they intend to solve this illegal immigrant problem. Most of the issues they discuss are about health care and the economy.

I understand both sides of the argument, and the frustrations people are feeling regarding this issue. My frustration is that we keep dealing with illegal immigration as if every person that comes over the border illegally has the exact same background, the exact same intentions and the exact same problems.

Just like we are discovering in Iraq right now, it is extremely difficult to deal with a large group of people and bring about change, because not all people are going to respond the same way. Some Iraqi's are welcoming to change, and some are not. We see the two different responses covered in the media; the conservative media covering the former angle, and the liberal media covering the ladder.

I don't like to group myself with liberals or conservatives because I don't fully agree with either side on any issue. But, what I would like to see the mainstream media do regarding the issue of illegal immigration is to STOP the banter, and start looking at individuals.

There are reasons why thousands of illegal immigrants are "sucking our health care system dry," as I heard a caller say on a local radio program today. Now, I myself am in the middle of a health insurance bind, so I understand completely why some Americans are tired of seeing illegal immigrants use up government health care money from programs such as ACCHHS. But I hate that so many Americans are looking at these people like they're leeches.

Particularly in the case of children. Mainstream media personalities argue back and forth about this issue, treating the entire immigrant populous like chattel. If only they would realize that not everyone in the world is an American, or thinks like an American. If only they would realize that journalists are not bestowed with superior knowledge that allows them to solve the world's problems, and chide anyone who would dare to disagree. Maybe they could think about their children, and the love and care they are offering them by making a living, and then think about these immigrant children who are completely innocent of what their parents are having them do.

Illegal immigration is still illegal, and I'm not arguing that it's OK, but can someone please just get over themselves long enough to shut their bantering mouths up, and see some people instead of numbers? Let me introduce you to the children...

Having fun with language

Below: Dos Hombres - "Two Men"
I spent about 10 years of my life living on a street called "River View." Actually, it was called "Rio Vista," but translates to "River View" in English. I would bet that most Tucsonans who grew up in Tucson have, at one time or another, lived on a street with a Spanish name. These names are all over the city. In our hospitals (El Dorado), in our schools (La Cima Middle School), in our parks (Agua Caliente Park) and in our neighborhoods (I lived in a neighborhood called "Vista Del Rio" or "View of the River.")

Tucson has borrowed many Spanish words that are now part of our everyday vocabulary. Unfortunately, not everyone in town knows Spanish (including me) so some street names remain a mystery. This blog is going to unravel the mystery to major street names and common words found in street names in the Old Pueblo.

Have you heard of these roads?

Tanque Verde: "Green Tank" - a major street that runs through the east side of Tucson
La Canada: "The Glen" or "The Dale" - a major street on the northwest side of Tucson
Rancho Vistoso: "Gorgeous Ranch" - a street on the northwest side of Tucson

Or have you lived on a street including one or more of these terms?

Calle: "Street"
Camino: "Way"
Avenida: "Avenue"
Paseo: "Pass"
Via: "Route" or "Way"
Circulo: "Circle"
Valle: "Valley"
Plaza: "Square" or "Open Place"
Ventana:"Window"
Alta: "High"

And here are some fun street names I found that don't have such obvious translations (for a non-Spanish speaker):

Loma del Bribon: "Hill of the ruffian" - "Ruffian Hill" (north-central Tucson)
Camino Del Codorniz: "Way of the quail" - "Quail Way"(far east Tucson)
Camino Sin Vacas: "Way without [a] cow" (north side of Tucson)

Above: Camino Seco - "Dry Way"

However, when an American city begins borrowing language from another country there are bound to be some problems in spelling, meaning, etc. Check out this article from an AZ Daily Star opinions writer who catches some of the flubs Tucson has made in misusing the Spanish language.

The Quinceanera

I was looking through racks and racks of wedding gowns when a bright pink, sparkly ball gown emerged through the billows of white. My first thought was, "who in the world would want to walk down the aisle in this thing?" Then, I realized nobody would. It was a Quinceanera gown. My search for the perfect wedding dress reminded me of a special part of Tucson culture that has come from Mexico - the Quinceanera celebration.

Being from Scottish-Irish decent, this celebration was a bit of a mystery to me. So I decided to ask some questions and figure out why so many bridal shops in Tucson are selling these gowns. I had a discussion with a friend, Katrina, who has grown up in a very large Mexican family, and has been to quite a few of these celebrations.

Katrina went to a Quinceanera last weekend, and gave me a description of the event. Basically, the whole things is about introducing a girl as a young woman to God and her family on her 15th birthday. At last weekend's celebration Katrina told me there was a church service, which is typical. The girl is presented to God, and prayers are said. Following the church service is the reception. "They all walked in like people do at a wedding," she said. "The girl was escorted by her father, and after she was announced, they started a waltz." She told me another typical Quinceanera tradition is the shoe ceremony. The girl's father takes off her flat shoes and replaces them with high-heels, symbolizing her transition into womanhood.

Katrina didn't have her own Quinceanera, but said she thinks they're fun. "It reminds me of a sweet 16. I think it means more in Mexico though, and maybe people are doing it here more to throw a big party."

My husband and I got a glimpse of a Quinceanera celebration about two-weeks-ago while we were driving past the Z-Mansion in downtown Tucson. We saw a girl in a huge purple gown surrounded by guys in tuxedos, having professional pictures taken in front of a limo. Now, I don't look down on this tradition in any way, but my question is:

If a 15-year-old girl buys an expensive ball gown (they often cost as much as a wedding gown), has a church ceremony followed by a reception at the Z-Mansion, dances the waltz with her father, and has professional photos taken, how will she top that on her wedding day? Is the American celebration of the Quinceanera more ostentatious that it was originally meant to be?

I would love to hear what other people think about this, so post a comment if you have something to say.

Either way, Tucson has become a Quinceanera-friendly city. So ladies, when you are shopping for your wedding gown and a huge purple dress pops out from the throngs of white, don't cringe at the thought of somebody walking towards her groom wearing it.

(This You Tube video shows a girl preparing for her Quinceanera. Does anyone think she looks like a bride?)

The "Spicy" life

Life...

I want to introduce you to a different side of life. In this blog I am going to take you beyond the monotony of living in Tucson, Arizona, and reveal the beautiful and unique sides of the Old Pueblo that have been brought here by our Mexican neighbors, and have become an integral part of what it means to be a Tucsonan.

My relationship with Tucson has been what you might describe as a "love-hate" relationship for the 24 years I've lived here. In my teen years I was itching to leave this city and head somewhere more exotic; preferably overseas, and preferably somewhere with some rain and grass. In the coming years I flew off to Ireland, lived in England for a few months, visited the entire UK, Italy and Croatia.

I think that most people who travel learn to appreciate what makes a city or country special. I started coming up with key words to explain my feelings for various places I'd visited. York, England is "charming." Scotland feels "jolly." Croatia is "intriguing," and the list goes on. But what I find fascinating is that my long-time "hate relationship" with Tucson began to change the more I traveled. The more I saw what made some of the most famous cities in the world unique and wonderful, the more I began to appreciate the "spice" of Tucson.


Tucsonans have the privilege of living in America while also experiencing some of the most beautiful and interesting parts of Mexican culture. The merging of our two cultures has left a mark on Tucson that makes this city a place I will always be happy to come home to. In this blog I aim to explore and understand some of the things we have borrowed from Mexico that make Tucson the "spicy" little town it is today.

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Interesting sites for the week:

• Sister Cities
• Volunteer Solutions

Maybe I've just been in the dark, but did you know Tucson has a "sister-cities" program going on with Mexico (and 5 other countries) to encourage peace and understanding between our countries? Visit the Sister Cities Web Site (a bit out of date) or the Volunteer Solutions Web Site for more information about this program.